Have you ever in a situation that you're not comfortable with and you want to say something, but you're afraid that the words will hurt the feeling of others?
And what is your final response?
You say it and furthermore your friend will leave you or you keep it but it will hurt you more since your friend didn't realize it hurt your feeling
I have those moments.
Sometimes I keep it, and yes, it hurt more but at that moment I choose that because it's better that way.
But sometimes I speak what's on my mind. Probably hurt others but I want to get that thought across their mind
I still don't know which one is better, but I think every situation is a specific case that cannot be generalized
One thing I keep in mind: If my decision is for the better of that person to have a better attitude and I care for the person, I probably will take the decision to speak up.
But If I think that at some level, I don't think if I speak up my mind, that thought will across to the person, I will choose to keep it to myself.
So, what do you think?
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